I havent had a single thought for 26 years. I have only understanding. Its somewhat complicated to understand that. Ive hardly ever spoken about it. Youre in a state of total peace of mind. A kind of nirvana.
I have an amazing spouse, were a team. He works, and I work, and we sort of do this dance with each other so that we can be present to our kids. But I think the whole balance thing is an illusion, we just embrace the imbalance.